Grommr may have been community oriented years ago, but in the age of side hustles, many profiles, at least over half, are just ads for that person’s Patreon, OnlyFans site, or their Paypal. More often than not it’s straight gainers. The site admins claim there is a policy in place about your profile text being more than a certain amount about your ad, but in practice this is ignored.
The site admins have ignored and under-responded to attack after attack, only putting in security measures after Dating Outdoor Singles the damage has been done. Every social media site gets old, and Grommr is from ten years ago now. That’s a lifetime. Can someone just start a new gainer site from scratch?
tbh grommr rocks
these other reviews are absurd. tbh, i am hot & fun & VERY fat, but i have found tons of friendly guys on grommr! there are a lot of people on grommr just looking for friendship & community, and the people complaining below probably just have poor social skills. there are guys w/ patreons & onlyfans, but honestly it takes a lot of money to get really fat & some guys like to pay. wish i could give more than five stars.
I read the reviews on here and they are…
I read the reviews on here and they are SPOT on. The stigma is fat people have always been shamed or shunned. So GROMMR is a community created in which to support them. But GROMMR hardly practices the objectivity it is based upon. I have spent months at a time on there. I have experienced conversations that abruptly end the moment I didn’t fit another’s image or fetish. I have seen posts to similar experiences, if you don’t meet somebody’s image or fetish you are cut off. I have seen the posts for food and money; I was hit up by a guy who requested these services. He said he would only ask once. I really liked him and conceded and then going forward he asked me for more money for food, and clothes. I believe now he was mentally ill. and I don’t think he’s the only one there. It’s mental illness, in addition to sex trafficking and con games.
Grommr has a severe problem
1 They try to sell themselves off as a dating site when in reality they beg for food and money. Oh they have their Grommoff but they don’t want anything to do with you.
2. If you aren’t a specific special body weight then you are just nothing to them. Also just to vent about the site. They look at your profile but act like you don’t exist. It’s heartbreaking when you ask to have a boyfriend but they refused to listen without it being money. Being honest I seriously think they are sex workers and scammers.
3. Funny how they look down at other guys when really most are begging for food and money or being nude on their only fans and patreon accounts. They intentionally get away with it.
4 I have been trying to tell them for years to create a gay dating app for men. To actually have a website that I can actually talk to regular people on a daily basis. The website and the people associated with it are a joke.
The site owners and those who run it could care less how you feel as long as they have money in their pockets. So Grommr. And Grokio LLCe up with something that isn’t Gainer and chub chaser related for Gay singles. Because you know since you refuse to listen. I’m just going to say that you deserve this rating.